A note of explanation to Veronica and others who share her feelings. I am a Christian, and I believe that I and other Christians strive to love our neighbors as Christ has loved us. How has Christ loved me? He has loved me as His creation that He planned to save after sin entered the world. He has loved me as my Savior who redeemed me by dying on the cross to pay for my many sins. And He has loved me as His Spirit who loves me enough to guide me out of sinful situations and tell me "no" sometimes because He wants the very best for me. Even Jesus said to the adulteress in John 8:11 "Go now and leave your life of sin." He wanted more for her, and He wants more for me. The Holy Spirit inspired Paul to write in 1 Cor. 6:12, "Everything is permissible for me - but not everything is beneficial." I hope this helps answer your legitimate question and helps you understand where some of us are coming from. You are correct that the ruling does not change God's love for me, my love for Him, or Christians' love for others. This love is the reason we want to live as God wants us to and to encourage others to do the same. Blessings!