You will here no argument from me that in a perfect Christian world marriage is between a man and a woman until death do you part. But we do not live in a perfect Christian World or a solely Christian Nation or a solely Christian World. We live in a land where the Constitution is supposed to reign supreme and in a world where there are many people of different faiths or none at all. Somehow we must all find a way to live together in peace or we will live and die together in dysfunction and war. I understand from the Christian perspective that in the time we all get along the world will be near its end and the second coming will be upon us. I see that as no just reason to continue with the dysfunction and war just to prevent the second coming from occurring. I'm at piece with my life and I give to god the right to make judgments upon all of us in our death. Till then can't we all just get along and respect each other and let god do the judging at time of death?