In reply to Matt.

I get what you are saying, Matt.

As a heterosexual female I have been hard pressed to find a committed Christian man who doesn't check out the women next door or the pew next to us. I have been 100% committed. I am currently single because I refuse to subject myself to exactly what you are referring to. People either need to be committed or be single. If people want to gawk or frolic about, then they should stay single.

I want to make a note that women are just as bad if not more so than men when it comes to lack of commitment in this area.