I'll demur on Bart Day's selective use of scripture and misinterpretation of Romans 1, but I would like to ask this question: He says, "Same-sex unions are contrary to God’s will, and gay marriage is, in the eyes of God, no marriage at all." So, what if two men or two women in a meeting for worship stand in front of the congregation and God and make solemn vows of lifelong fidelity and love and mutual support -- and then keep those vows -- what is it if it isn't marriage?