I personally, would love to see a Deaconess's in every Church.

Women in the ministry who would serve other women.

“You, however, must teach what is appropriate to sound doctrine.

Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.”
‭‭Titus‬ ‭2:1, 3-5‬ ‭NIV‬‬

The superwoman in Proverbs 31 is the "perfect" example. But notice in verse 10a it says,

A wife of noble character who can find????

A woman/wife/Mother can feel like a failure... even though she is seeking God's will for her life.
Or past failures cause many to give up on God's purpose.

John 4:15-26

A Pastor's may not understand a women's role like another female. (hopefully, no offense taken)!

I also believe there would be less temptation for gossip, if women had a female mentor/Deaconess: Someone willing to listen confidently, to their heartache and showing them the love of Christ, while God's Word/Son/Spirit, guides them to the Truth.