We do indeed need to have a pastoral and compassionate approach to those dealing with same sex attraction in the military chaplaincy, as well as within the local LCMS churches, however, we cannot be called upon to "affirm" or celebrate homosexuality contrary to what the word of God teaches. If one struggling with the sin of shoplifting asks a pastor or chaplain for understanding or affirmation, and has no intention of seeking counsel or repentance, must an LCMS pastor, out of fear of offending, state that it is perfectly acceptable to shoplift? The LCMS does have the right approach at present. Since when did Christ advise His disciples to avoid calling sin what it is...?