In my 40 years as a pastor, living in 2 different parsonages, I felt that I should live in the parsonage as if it were my own house, even though the church owned it. Minor things I would take care of, letting the trustees know, but major items were things that they needed to do. We had the trustees come and look over the parsonage every other year so they were aware of the shape of the place and I would always ask them, if they would live in it was or if there was something that they would replace. This cooperative spirit went a long way.